A wedding is a project with feelings attached
Dozens of vendors, several people paying, two families with opinions, and a total that only ever goes up. A wedding budget isn't hard because the math is complex — it's hard because the money is shared across people who care deeply and track differently.
The couples who stay sane treat it like a shared project: one source of truth, clear ownership, visible running total.
Set up the ledger before the deposits start
- --One shared ledger everyone contributing can see — no parallel spreadsheets.
- --Categories that match reality: venue, catering, outfits, photography, travel, gifts.
- --A budget per category, with a live meter, so you see overspend the day it happens — not at the end.
- --Log who paid each vendor, so reimbursements between families are unambiguous.
Keep receipts for the ones that matter
Vendor advances, big deposits, anything refundable or disputable — keep the receipt. For a wedding, proof of a paid deposit is worth having. For the hundred small things, the logged number is plenty. Be deliberate about which images you keep.
How Snugtab helps
One shared ledger for the whole wedding
Try the tool: group expense tracker.