How to Split Shared Finances After a Breakup

List everything shared, settle it once, and close the loops — so the money is done even if the feelings aren't.

Start with a list, not a fight

A breakup is emotional; the money side doesn’t have to be. Make one list of everything you share — the lease, the deposit, joint accounts, cards, subscriptions, things you bought together, bills that are still coming — and work through it item by item, ideally in writing.

The home

--Who stays and who goes? If both are on the lease, agree who takes it over and inform the landlord.
--Rent until the end of the notice period is usually shared as before.
--The deposit — split by what each person paid, after any agreed deductions (moving out and settling up).
--Final utility bills — split up to the move-out date.

Accounts, subscriptions and purchases

--Joint accounts — agree how to split the balance, then close them or remove one name.
--Shared subscriptions — move them to one person’s card or cancel (splitting shared subscriptions).
--Shared purchases — the person who keeps an item can buy out the other’s share, or sell it and split.
--Money owed — settle outstanding balances once, with a clear final number.
--Change passwords and remove saved cards from shared devices and apps.

Settle once, then close the ledger

The kindest outcome is one final settlement both of you agree with, and then nothing hanging over either of you. A record of who paid what during the relationship makes that far easier — and far less personal. If you’re moving in with someone new later, the live-in money guide is worth a read.

Frequently asked questions

How do you split money after a breakup?

List everything you share — lease, deposit, joint accounts, subscriptions, purchases and upcoming bills — agree how each is divided, settle with one final transfer, and close joint accounts and shared services.

Who gets the security deposit after a breakup?

Usually it’s split according to what each person paid, after any deductions the landlord makes.

What happens to things we bought together?

The person keeping an item can buy out the other’s share, or you can sell it and split the proceeds.

How do I stop paying for shared subscriptions?

Move each subscription to one person’s payment method or cancel it, and remove saved cards and passwords from shared devices.

How Snugtab helps

One final, fair number

If you tracked shared costs in Snugtab, settling up is one view: who paid what, what’s owed, and a final balance you can both see.

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